They're Dropping Like Flies

Alright, here's the lowdown. I'm not the most social person. That means that sometimes I'd rather stay inside and code a Wordpress theme rather than go out on a Saturday night. I like people, (well, mostly kind of, sort of) and have friends. Not a lot of friends, because I'm very particular with the kinds of people I associate with. It's just a matter of choice, and being trusting with people. Plus, I'm the kind of person that needs to be understood, and some people just don't understand.

Anyways, this means that if you start being a bad friend, I will stop being your friend. I will stop caring if you lead me to that point.

So, that's what happened the other day. This person in question had been being a bad friend for quite some time. They don't, and never will realize that a friendship is a mutual connection, not just them spewing out incessant garbage and expecting me to listen to it. We've all got our ups and downs, but this was just utter nonsense that really did not resemble a friendship. They were just the type of person to tell everyone every little thing that they decided worth talking about. Like, hooking up with some kid, or underage drinking at a club. I don't understand why someone would need to spread their involvement in actions like this to anyone they could get to talk to them. It was getting to the point where I'd just talk about them to our mutual friends (in a non-positive way), complaining about the things they said and how annoying it was. Everyone else feels the way I do. I'm not about to waste my time dealing with someone that doesn't deserve it.

I ended this friendship (second attempt in a few months) quite rudely and abruptly. I do regret being rude about it, but I don't regret this post or the fact that I am more than happy to not have to be involved in this relationship.

I don't know how to feel about all of this, but I think ending this was the right thing to do.